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Wedding photos

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I have finally obtained my wedding photos. All 2,957 of them. It has been quite the ordeal. First the photographer had to edit the ones he thought appropriate for printing, which took 2 weeks. Then my mother, who lives next door to the photographer, got a hold of them and wanted to print her own and some for the grandmothers which took another 3 weeks and finally I got them. Kind of a crazy process. Didn’t exactly see that going down that way. But nonetheless they are mine and I couldn’t be happier. There are so many I might have to spend one of my days off organizing them into folders. I don’t think I can explain how hysterically difficult it is to look for one particular shot that you specifically remember among 2,957 when they are somewhat out of order. And by the time you scroll through them you get distracted by picture number 1,567 and forget why you were looking through them in the first place. It’s awesome and yet frustrating.

When I began writing this post I had the intention of looking for a particular shot and three days later have come back to finish the post.

I got distracted. Here is my favorite shot.

snow day

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How glorious is it to wake up to snow. I can remember as a kid praying like mad for a snow day. I would even settle for a 2 hour delay. Snow days came few and far between growing up in Raleigh, NC so when one came it was epic regardless of the measurement on the ground. My prayers were answered and then some when I was 14 and 22 inches of snow came our way along with my Dad’s worst nightmare: a couple inches of ice. We lost power for a good week but I barely noticed. I remember not being able to contain my excitement. I must have burned through all our snow gear in the first 2 days. Our dryer was on constantly. I wasn’t even opposed to wearing my brothers snow gear and the possibility of the boy I had a crush on seeing me. I feel I was at the right age where I was willing to act like a child but still on the verge on becoming a rotten teenager. So the timing and my age were perfect because otherwise I think my silly teenager mind would have prevented me from having as much fun as I did. My dad got the power back on eventually and my Mom couldn’t make enough hot cider or hot chocolate. My sisters and I were only in the house to sleep, eat, and of course the bathroom. But other than that we saw no purpose being inside. The idea that the snow and ice would go away kept me outside as much as possible so that in the end I could go to sleep happy knowing I had sled down the hill enough times.

Now I’m 23 and there hasn’t been an epic snow like that since but we have had our fair shares of good attempts by Mother Nature. The excitement comes creeping back and then I realize the chances of work being canceled is far more impossible than school being canceled. And I have to remember that I don’t have snow gear or sleds and that the chances of me sledding day after day for 2 weeks probably won’t happen again. But I still love the first time I walk outside after it has snowed. The quiet is deafening and I feel like I am the only one there. I went out at 6:30 this morning to snow and just soaked it all in. I love the feeling that the snow, a true natural gift from God, has covered my world as I know it and I honestly feel as if it’s just me and Him. Truly one of the most beautiful and serene feelings.

films of 2010

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This is simply beautiful. I was grinning from ear to ear while watching. And in my second go around I was trying to name all the film clips. Which turned out to be surprisingly difficult. But I still loved trying to figure out which clips came from which movies and if I had seen them. My overall conclusion is simply that 2010 was a good year for film. I am super excited the Golden Globe noms are out cause that means award season is almost upon us. And award season might be my favorite season, right behind Fall.

things I have time for

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Another holiday has come and gone and I have been running the same routine with work, dinner, and sleep since my last post. Things changed drastically since November 3rd and I don’t know if anyone could have prepared me for what lay ahead. I am astounded at what I have time for these days and ashamedly what I don’t have time for (more like what I don’t have energy for, but really, really, really want to do).

When at university (sorry, just watched The Queen and am in a bit of a British mood) I kept telling my boyfriend/fiance that I was made for the working world. I was certain I excelled better on a day to to basis in the working world than I did in the academic world. What’s funny about that statement is that I had known “the working world” for 3 months between semesters in the summers. I had known the glorious world of an intern and stupidly and naively equated that to the real working world. I now work 40, 50, and sometimes 60 hour weeks and by the end of those weeks my best friend’s 25 page paper (that she got an A on!) looked so enticing. I actually became jealous of her finals schedule! I now understand why my now-husband laughed when I made those ridiculous statements. He knew and would argue a little and then just sit back and waited. He waited I guess for this exact moment. When I would wake up at 6:30 on a Sunday morning to go to work and realize I really miss school and I really miss sleeping till at least 8 and I really miss the classroom environment. I’m sure he’ll be smirking while reading this.

the pathetic list of things I have time for are:

1. DwellingGawker.com

This could be the most glorious website ever to exist. And so when I come home and only have the brain capacity to kiss my husband and plop down on the couch this is what entertains me till dinner.  I check the website every other day and am tickled at all the beautiful and creative home furnishings and amazing architecture. The sweet amazement comes in little windows and you get to choose your treat based on the glimpse they give you. Overall it makes me happy.

2. Gaming

I have continued my love for gaming. I say I love gaming but I don’t believe I deserve the title of gamer. Its all very confusing. I love the Call of Duty games the most and pretty much anything with guns which in turn makes me feel uncomfortable when my husband tells the guy at Game Stop, “well she likes the games where she can shoot people”. I immediately go red but realize the Game Stop guy gives me the nod of approval. And yet I still feel like I have to explain myself. I guess I just like “getting” the bad guys, like the fictional beings in Resident Evil or Nazis in Call of Duty: World at War. So I should probably let go of any guilt or shame I have and just enjoy the fact that I have a husband who will play with me. (except if its Grand Turismo, which I don’t want to play and he’s happy with it that way).

3. Television

I just realized this list is forming into one gigantic statement. “Cayce does not leave her couch when she comes home from work” is what you all might be thinking. Sweet, so I am exposing how lazy I get after an 8 or 10 hour work day. It’s all good though, I have an adoring and loving husband who is OK with this (I hope). So I have been watching Walking Dead, Dexter, various films I haven’t seen in a while, How I Met Your Mother, and the very shameful Cats (or Dogs) 101 on Animal Planet.

the list of the things I wish I had much, much, more time to do:

1. See my best friend who lives 2 miles away. I haven’t seen her since Thanksgiving and for good reason but I kinda miss her.

2. Calling and catching up with my other best friend who thought it would be a good idea to follow her dreams to California. Yes, I know following dreams is a perfectly fine concept but not if its in California! OK, kidding aside I couldn’t be more happy/proud of her for doing something different and getting out of Raleigh. But I wish I had the energy to call her up and catch up with all the things we’ve missed out on in each others lives.

3. Pray more. ‘nough said.

4. Read more. I am on book 4 in the Harry Potter series (first time reading them). I felt like I had been missing out on something having never read them and finally took the plunge in anticipation for the second part of the 7th film. They are amazing! But I never seem to find the time to put energy into reading them except in bed before falling asleep and at work when there are no customers around.

**Update, I couldn’t get through the 5th book, they are WAY too long. Thankfully there are film versions.

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